It?s always difficult to know when a relationship is over but sometimes the answer is right in front of you, you just need it to be pointed out. We have got expert advice on how to know when it?s time to call it a day with your partner.
We will start with Lack of communication or failing to communicate???
Communication is so essential to a relationship, that the lack thereof can be a sign that the relationship is on its way out,? says Rachel DeAlto, relationship and flirting expert?.Failing to communicate will leave a big void in your relationship and cause minor problems to spiral into unnecessary issues. Try going for an afternoon walk or book a table at your local restaurant, with no distractions the conversation should flow more easily. If it proves to be difficult and it becomes apparent that you simply just don?t care anymore then you know what to do.
You?re off sex ? ?Having a healthy sex life and one that suits both your libidos and sexual desires is important for every relationship, but if your bedroom time has gone from exciting and experimental to dull and repetitive then it?s time to decide why.
Relationship expert Rachel DeAlto says, ?If your sex life has gone from 60 to 0, it is a bad sign that your relationship is on the fritz. A little ebb and flow of desire is normal, but if one of you has lost the desire completely (without any underlying medical condition involved) it is time to end it.?If you?re not quite ready to call it a day, try bringing the zing back to your sexy time with a new sex position, or introduce sex toys into the mix. If you?re both still not jumping into the bedroom then maybe your relationship is more suited to being just a friendship?
You? re bored ? At the beginning of your relationship, his romantic gestures came thick and fast and every little indication of his affection would ignite the flame of excitement in you. But now the honeymoon period is over, your time together is more about staying in front of the telly rather then romantic meals and walks in the park.While this isn?t necessarily time to call it quits immediately, do let him know you need some more excitement again, even if it?s a case of simply making a date at your local restaurant. If he fails to make the effort then it?s time to question just how much this relationship means to each of you. If he isn?t interested then why should you be?
You dont get affectionate -?Can you remember the last time you missed your man or woman? Do you often tell him/her you love them? Love snuggling up for a cuddle??If these feelings and expressions have become a thing of the past, then your relationship needs a emotional overhaul. If you don?t want to embrace your partner or you wouldn?t miss him/her if he or she, left then its time to move on.
You fight constantly -?A spat of words in a relationship is a great way to vent and can actually be healthy, after all, it shows you both still care. If you get to a point however, when you can no longer resolve the issues and just fight ALL the time, you need to think about how you want to continue in the relationship. If you find you both still have the desire to sort things out, you could be in with a chance of reviving your relationship. If there?s no want, then unfortunately there?s no relationship.
You?ve lost interest -?At the beginning of a relationship, you and your partner are inseparable. You embark on endless text convos about what you?re up to, late night phone calls to see how their day went and go on spontaneous dates so you can spend even more time together. Once chatting about these general day-to-day topics no longer interests either of you, it?s time to decide whether you?ve outgrown one another.
He?s Cheated -?It is not impossible to get over the fact your man cheated, many couples do it and can become stronger as a result. For some of us however, it?s a tough hurdle to get over.
?Cheating in a relationship is always damaging. There are many factors that come into play when deciding if it?s time to call it quits, but it all comes down to whether you can rebuild the trust,? says Rachel DeAlto. ?If you cannot forgive and trust them again, it?s better to walk away.?
Try a romantic break to see if you can rekindle some romance and remember why you fell in love. If you still can?t get over a past infidelity, then you need to consider that his breach of trust may just not be something you will ever get over.
[Cosmopolitan]
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Source: http://flavafm.co.zm/2012/08/06/ways-to-know-your-relationship-is-over/
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